anti-prose. random matter.
Published on January 27, 2006 By crimson In Blogging
Sleep, wake up, wash, eat, go to work, eat, wash, sleep, repeat.



Day in and day out... it's bloody monotonous. Am I alive? Has anything changed? I've talked to thousands this week and I've never felt so bloody distanced from the world.

Occasionally there's standout moments in an otherwise blur of the fucking same old, same old. A good laugh with a buddy, a smile with a friend. More often though, a brief moment of pure rage when finally prodded hard enough, but never enough to release the blackness inside.

For the most part, it's a neverending cycle of bullshit. Bullshit that I bathe in, unable to walk away. Lie upon lie, that I'm forced to utter, and for that I'm rewarded with meaningless numbers that rarely translate into more meaningful ones. I cash my check and it's always a negative balance by the end of the week. But I get my shiny gold stars, and a pat on the head when I've done a good job.

So Friday comes and I lay down my cards. An evening of babysitting her kid for a free Saturday night from any sort of responsibility. I'll smoke cheap cigarettes after I've done my hair and hit the road. I'll make my way downtown and listen to music that will wash right over me, and then slowly get loaded on beer by the pint. I'll laugh and I'll laugh and I'll laugh.

A brief interlude from a song on repeat.

Home to an empty room, to an apartment that has housed so many others like me: taking what I can get from momentary pleasures and momentary pain. Just another bloody person trying to make it day by day. Bank account shrinking, living on nickels and dimes.

A Sunday, bloody Sunday, full of defiant statements of recent enjoyments. A furtive glance at the wallet, a tightening of the belt. And then it begins.

It's all the same.


Comments
on Jan 27, 2006

No.  Learning.  That is what it is.

Learning to think.

on Jan 27, 2006
Yup. Yup.

Been there...sometimes I go back for a visit, but not too often.

Hope something exciting fills your life soon.
on Jan 28, 2006
It must be the days of fun with friends, the laffs, that keeps us "keepin on"...

If one can break the monontony with a new routine, new way to get to work, a new restaruant,
it all helps..

winter is almost over, right?
on Jan 28, 2006
Although routine can be comforting, one does need to mix it up once in a while...we'd go insane if we didn't. Here's hoping you get to have more mixed up moments.
on Jan 28, 2006
About the article: while writing it, I hesitated and wavered between posting it under 'blogging' or under 'art'. It felt more like I was drawing a picture and after I was done, I simply got up and walked away to play a board game with my kid.

Such a comparision between a cycle of solitary existence, or working towards enjoying special moments with family and friends.

Thanks for responding all.
on Jan 28, 2006
must be the days of fun with friends, the laffs, that keeps us "keepin on"...



Although routine can be comforting, one does need to mix it up once in a while...


All true...
I think your blog hit close to home with a lot of people.

I have been kind of feeling the same way. There are things I need to change, but am too lazy. I am hoping it is just the winter blahs...
on Jan 28, 2006
You strike a chord that is all too harmonic.
on Jan 29, 2006
Wow. Damn good writing here! I burn enviously...
on Jan 29, 2006

Wow. Damn good writing here! I burn enviously...

That is very high praise!

on Jan 30, 2006
Nice writing, Nicky. As much as we don't like the tediousness of routine, for the most part I think we'd all be lost without it.
on Feb 07, 2006
Hope you don't mind me sucking some inspiration out of this post
on Feb 09, 2006
Nice to see you around, Mack. Looking forward to your next creative effort.

Thanks for responding, all.