anti-prose. random matter.
not that I REALLY give a shit...
Published on December 21, 2005 By crimson In Blogging
Even though I said I'd never do it, I've been trying to make some adjustments in beefing up security. I know that it is a bit of a chuckle, considering all of the information that I post in my useless, non-meaningful blogs. It bloody well infuriates me that I feel this need to try to make some changes, when I used to be so happy before. Mind you, this isn't all coming from an isolated event, rather, several situations have come up, and I thought I'd try to figure out a way to make some changes now.

Well, from what it looks like, once it's done, it's done.

There is no way to just rename a blog, or change your username. And, aside from just saving each article individually, and then deleting, I'm too bloody lazy to figure out another way to do it. I also stand by my original feelings, I've been blogging for an extremely long time. This isn't just a blog started and dropped within a couple of months. Three days from now, I will have been blogging here at Joeuser for two full years. And everyone knows that a year in blogging is way more than what a year in real life would be. Kinda like a dog that lives a year in real life is has actually lived 7 dog years. Some of us are pretty old dogs, that's for sure.

As bloggers, how much have we changed over 2 years? So many people have come and gone from Joeuser, and the ones that stay around for a goodish time, grow on ya! I've exchanged mail with good people here, and have kept in contact with other people who have decided to leave the fold. I've seen people's children grow up a bit, and have definitely heard how much these kids' parents are growing.

I think the adult thing would be for me just to sort and delete, but I'm digging in my heels here, and saying that this isn't some online diary that I'm participating in. I had no qualms in wiping out an old LJ account, and am getting around to figuring out how to delete blogs that I've tested and rejected.

But I would hate to voluntarily leave JU. Some changes are definitely in the making, though. I'm going to pare down on my work-related rants, and perhaps just post them to my 'select audience'. I'm going to try to refrain from mentioning specific places and names, but the end result is this. It's impossible to erase all of the pertinent information. Part of where I live and who I interact with on a daily basis is what makes me, me.

Shovelheat wrote an interesting article that has been mirroring my thoughts lately. (Go find it on your own, you lazy asses!) It was about posting pictures and online security. Now, I see the pros and cons in it. The main thrust of the arguement that exists for me is why should I have to? Well, I've got a perfect person in my life that is reason enough. And as safe as I'd like to feel that I am, all the way up here in _______ (good start.) I know that it's not as true as I'd like to believe.

Ah, I hate thinking this way. But, better safe than sorry.

Peace, all.


Comments
on Dec 21, 2005
I am like you to some extent.

I really don't care who knows what about ME, but I have kids and a husband to think about.

I was "burned" on another site when I was very open about my husband's job and how I felt about certain aspects of it. Turns out, and I knew this but didn't care, some of the other posters (who were in the same occupation) didn't like my views and things got, well, weird for a little while at my husband's job.

Thanks goodness I didn't hurt him in anyway, and he shut them all down pronto. But, he has asked me not to discuss his job, which is hard for me because there are a few people on here who do the same thing, and sometimes when they are talking about it...well I just want to jump in and say "YEAH!" Especially since he is gone so much....But, I promised. So that's that.

As for sharing other info. Well, I really haven't talked about anything here I wouldn't talk about in a room full of strangers. People at the grocery store know me more than most bloggers here. By the time I leave the store they all know the names of my kids for sure because I am always saying, "H stop that! Put that down! G come here!"

Buwhahaha.

As for someone ever stalking me or mine after reading my blog. I'll take my chances. They won't find a victim at the other end of their obsession though, rest assured.

As for your blog. It is up to you of course. But I sure hope you keep on bloggin!
on Dec 21, 2005
I guess that's the question is how much is too much. I don't think I've ever used my last name. I really think someone would have to be pretty talented to find me with just my first name and town. I don't know. I really don't worry too much about it.
on Dec 21, 2005
I have trouble revealing too much about myself on here...yes, I have posted my pic on here, and yes I've written about some personal and work related stuff, but only to a certain extent. Anything that I feel is too private or personal, I will just keep on my private blog and journals.

Also, not many people in my personal life know that I blog, and I'd like to keep it that way.
on Dec 21, 2005
Also, not many people in my personal life know that I blog, and I'd like to keep it that way


That makes two of us!

I don't have any problems blogging about me. Though my husband does sometimes glimpse my blog from over my shoulder and asks why I am writing this or that. I shrug and say, because it is on my mind today. He doesn't care so long as it doesn't affect him or the kids.

So far so good on JU.

Plus I would like to mention that I believe women tend to share more personal things because it is a way we bond. Granted we aren't forming RL friendships but pen pals all the same....

Like Whip though, what in the world would anyone be reading my blog for really? Unless they stumbled on it and then my life is not that exciting. They'd move on...to more fertile fields I think.
on Dec 22, 2005
Add to that the fact that I have been absolutely truthful about everyting I've posted here so I have no worries about being 'found out' or discovered as a fraud, I've found JU to be a relatively safe place to let it all hang out


I'm pretty damned truthful about myself, but there's some people out there that have difficulty with it expressed. Out of respect, and avoidance of predictible outcomes, I'm trying to tone it down a bit.

Also, not many people in my personal life know that I blog, and I'd like to keep it that way.


I'm not one to readily give out my blog information. Close people who know me, know I do it, but politely wait for an invitation to read. It's the strange people who have just happened across it that is more worrisome.


Plus I would like to mention that I believe women tend to share more personal things because it is a way we bond. Granted we aren't forming RL friendships but pen pals all the same....


Good point, and all the more reason why I'm reluctant to quit altogether. I enjoy the interaction, and have 'met' some great people. Why should I give this up?

Thanks for writing all.