an exercise in self-control
I do have a Blacklist, surprisingly.
I'm not one to tear someone down. I follow threads that have that gossippy air, but I usually just sit back and watch it all unfold. I'm like this in 'real' life, too. I'm more than likely to be the quiet one sitting at the end of the bar, nodding along with the conversation, than be on top of the bar, dancing wildly, causing a sensation. At work, I'm polite and encouraging, but I'm not one of those people that are always the centre of attention, in the eye of the storm. You won't ever hear me shouting at a customer either, even though I do get my feathers ruffled from time to time.
Unsurprisingly, I don't think that anyone who is on my Blacklist would ever actually come over and visit my quiet little blog. I'm not much for heated debate, and it rarely draws the attention from people who irk me the most. I'm sure that if you even recognized half the people on my blog blacklist, you'd nod and agree that there are very distinct similarities between them all. In fact, since some of the names on it are of people who started blogging almost 2 years ago, many of them are unrecognizable to most of the current regular Joeusers. Some oldschool Joeusers would know them, and I'm sure we'd share a smile or two between us if we could, if we compared the newer inductees.
However, I think that it would be appropriate to mention that while I may never have exchanged words with any of them, it's my intent not to ever do so. My blacklist is not just a way to keep from people responding, but it's a way for me to mind my manners, and to not participate in the constant little jabbing that deteriorates into some childlike, petulant, whiny behavior.
Is it a co-incidence that this article corresponds with another thread? Probably not. But generally, there are always a few articles going around like this. It's been like this ever since I started blogging, anyway. I'm not trying to write a sneaky disguised article about specific people. I'm just trying to show why I feel a Blacklist is necessary for me.
Just for the hell of it.