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bloody well stay home, you sick &#%!
Published on April 16, 2004 By crimson In Health & Medicine
Dear TB Queen (and everyone else who is 'just feeling a bit under the weather'),

Okay, I realize that almost everyone is in agreement that winter is over, and that the time for winter illness is over, too. For those poor sacks who are still hacking and coughing, and puking, and whatever else comes with your illness... stay the hell away from me or better yet, just STAY HOME!!!

This means YOU!!! I'm at the university library and there's a whole lotta coughing going on here. I am this close to screaming at the chick two rows over from me who sounds like she's got TB at the very least. What are you doing here?!!!

People who go to work or off to school and are obviously sick are complete morons. I'm not talking a mild case of the sniffles. I'm talking about people who are thisclose to having pneumonia, or are highly contagious with the flu. I've made it this far without getting sick this winter... damned if I want to come down with something in the final stretch.

And for those parents who are sending their kids off to daycare while sick... grow up! Take some responsibility. Keep your kid home so that he or she doesn't start another wave of sickness going around through the place. I know it's sucky to lose a day of work, that it's hard to find childcare... but damn it, you're just being selfish. Making it harder for everyone else to go on in life.

Signed,
Sick and tired of the sick and tired.

Comments (Page 2)
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on Apr 20, 2004
Just as a data point - at my work we get a decrease in our performance rating if we're off sick because other people gave to do our work while we're off.
on Apr 20, 2004
Let me throw in my 2 cents. I get a cold every single year, lasting about 3 months on average. For most of my life, I have averaged around 8 to $10,000 annual salary. A low-end appartment here runs around $600/month (California), but I, like most people, bounced between renting space in someone's garage, staying with friends, etc, and typically had $40 a month or so left for food after rent and gas to get to work. It was hard, but I worked hard and did ok. Now I am lucky enough to have a good job, so I can affort my own appartment and luxuries like fresh produce, instead of ramen and potatoes every day. Back then (and still, for most people I know), a three month sick leave every year would mean homelessnes. Anyone who has ever heard me coughing and told me I should go home, meaning I should become homeless because of a cold, is still my enemy today. If some swine can take sick leave and still afford food and rent, great for them. But don't yell at the rest of them down in the real world. I may have become successful, but I won't forget the little guys.
on Sep 13, 2005
You live in a sheltered world, don't you? People who skip work because they are horribly ill...are often quickly among the ranks of the unemployed...not to mention the financial encumbrances caused by lost workdays.
on Sep 13, 2005

Nobody could convince me otherwise, that an employer would truly can someone who is so obviously ill.

Well, I've seen it happen, so I beg to differ.

on Sep 13, 2005

Not good for anyone! If you have a fever, it means your body is fighting off something that shouldn't be there and shouldn't be introduced to anyone else......stay home!

And how forgiving will the landlord be when the rent's not paid due to several days' absence by a low wage worker (in many larger cities, landlords charge late fees for rent not paid on time; these late fees often accumulate on a daily basis)? How forgiving will the utilities be? Will the grocer forego payment because you were in bed four days with the cold?

I agree, ideally, someone who is sick SHOULD stay home. But the sad truth is, not everybody CAN (and, among the low wage earners, those that do are often labelled "welfare bums" by bosses who assume they don't WANT to work).

Illness is more prevalent among the low wage earners. Poorly insulated and/or ventilated houses cause a myriad of illnesses and symptoms from environmental factors such as carbon monoxide poisoning. In addition, poor nutrition renders their bodies ill equipped to fight off the diseases that would have minimal effect on most of us.

Again, I appreciate the sentiment (and am inlined to stay home the FEW times I get sick), but also realize it doesn't work in reality.

on Sep 14, 2005
You live in a sheltered world, don't you?


My god, Gideon. Have you ever read one of my blogs? I am well aquainted with low paying jobs, welfare, and all the other issues that accompany poverty.

Thanks for bumping an article I wrote more than a year and a half ago, but I said it back then, and I feel the same way now: while I do not condone skipping off work for every little minor illness, and I understand that major companies, mine included have strict attendance policies, there are definite times where it is your RESPONSIBILITY to take care of yourself.

If you are taking care of yourself responsibly, your rent payments and grocery purchases can sustain a couple of days without a paycheck.
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